Here are a few techniques to help you avoid becoming distracted:
- Ask yourself, "What is the real issue?" Whenever we give in to a distraction, we are avoiding completing the task we're working on. For example, I'm working on getting ready to teach a new seminar topic for one of my clients. When my sister calls and I decide to talk to her for an hour, I need to ask myself "why?" Is it because I don't like preparation time (propably). You have to get to the root cause.
- Ask yourself, "Does this distraction fit into the priorities I've set for myself today?" Sometimes a distraction is a good thing, but if it adds to the task you're working on.
- Do you like mini-diversions, you know, little breaks from what you're doing? Again, be real! My sister has a new love interest, and the truth is that I want to know what's going on, so I welcome her calls.
- Before giving in to a distraction ask yourself, "What do I stand to lose if I give in to this distraction?"
- Remember, just because it seems urgent doesn't mean that it really is urgent! Don't get sucked in to someone else's priority.
- Be flexible, and change your priorities if you feel that this distraction warrants a higher priority than what you may be doing.
So, if you want to live and work in a stress-free environment, take control of your distractions and don't let distractions take control of you!
Until next blog,
Dr. Angela
"Life with no purpose is no life at all!"
1 comment:
that was helpful bt i'd like to know more bout distractions n school work:)
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